aiyo..paiseh again

24th may 2009 - we went for the pei xun today which was
meant for the shi bo and shi gu and xue jie..really kebluran
..know a bit but dont know alot..keke..there were a total of
4 speakers..the first was the hospital director who
explained about the hospital stuff to us, i think..seriously i
dont really understand the whole content of the whole
event, just a bit here and there, and try to link up the
whole thing..and the presentation was also fully mandarin
with a bit of alphabet here and there..really gaolat today...
the second speaker talked about things about pathology
or something like post mortem..he also shared his
experience in which he accidentally cut himself while
dissecting a patient and it turned out the patient had
hepatitis c..its good to hear that he is allright after all the
follow up investigations as there's still no vaccine so far
for hep c..
after that, we had a lunch break..the lunch was nice, i reall
like it but it was too serious that we didnt dare take any
photo and we communicate through eye contact..keke..
after lunch, we had sharing session..i was so lucky loh, the
first 2 to fen xiang.. i can go think of using shou yu..lau
eh..so tiew lian..more and more ppl know im super
banana..but thank god with all the help, support and
encouragement from fellow members, im ok..everytime in
tzu chi activity, my worst and fearful moment was during
sharing..oh my god...anyway, the shi bo who accompanied
us was very nice..he kept praising us and didnt believe that
we are 5th year medical student..keke..many other shi bo
and shi gu were actually praising us till we so paiseh..but
the 3 malaysian shi gu(s) which have been accompanying
and arranging activities for us kinda know our 'belang'
ady..we are like super guai students in tzu qing uniform,
but without tzu qing uniform, we are really in different
world..keke..
after that, the pei xun continued with two other speakers..
one was sharing with us on the topic of organ donation
and encouraging us to be organ donors in order to
'save'others and it is also a part of 'recycling' as it is
better than to leave our organs to rot..kinda true the
philosophy but she also emphasized on family issues and
proper discussion should be done..it kinda hit me as that
was also my setback when my parents couldnt take the fact
when i wanted to pledge to be an organ donor.. just see
how things go then...then the last speaker was the
supervisor for the 'volunteers' who shared with us alot of
the minor minor phrases or words that could actually
make a difference if we said it wrongly..he also pinpointed
that we should always do something willingly and
wholeheartedly, not just do for the sake of doing..we ought
to be caring and share our love to those around us
despite of who he/she is..we also must have a smiley face
and never put on a hatred, worried, annoyed or irritated
face to those whom we wanna help..another point he
pointed out was we must not be discouraged by the bad
remarks or tantrums shown by those whom we are helping
but just do watever we intended to do..its really a good
sharing..learnt a bit here and there and hope i will be a
better person with all of this 'pei xun'
then we had dinner at li hua shi gu's home..we so tam chiak
oo..ate so many things and kinda finished all her
food..keke..she fried koay teow for us, plain and tomyam,
vege, egg, and second round was tomyam fried rice, third
was the spagetti and third was lasagna..kaka..not
forgetting the banana, lychee and mango..keke..ate till all
of us so full..and also curi makan her titbits and went bk
to our hostel with some of her titbits and
sweet..goodness..really so paiseh oo..and she's planning
for our dinner nex weekend if she's free..really so gan en
to her and the 2 other shi gu..thanx so much..really made
me not to miss home ady..so warm the hospatility...very sin
fu..